There is such a thing as bad timing in relationships. This is bad timing. Regardless of whether or not they're still together, he still has huge responsibilities to his ex %26amp; jumping into a relationship with these responsibilities should be one of the last things on his mind. He's going to be a father %26amp; he cannot %26amp; should not focus his energy on you right now. Becoming a parent is a life changing event %26amp; requires a period of adjustment. Be a friend to him for now, but wait until he's settled into his new role as a father before getting involved any deeper.
You need to ask yourself a few things: Are you okay with him spending time with his ex? She will forever be a big part of his life. Are you okay with always being second best? The child will most likely be the #1 person in his life. His time %26amp; money will be consumed with a baby. How would you feel if you %26amp; your bf broke up while you were pregnant %26amp; he jumped into another relationship before you even gave birth? I can attest to the fact that it is terribly painful- my ex did the same to me 6 months into my pregnancy. Be smart about this.I need some kind of advice about love handling from an outsider who doesn't know me?
oh no you don't . it will just end up you getting very hurt. i have seen it so many times with my daughters friends. how would you like being with him and having a life together , you both work, but you get to hand over your pay check to his x for the babies support payments not fun.. move on get your own babies daddy.. cause he messed this all up..oh he!! no..
I know you may think you're in love with this guy, but do not, do not, do not get involved, especially if his ex is pregnant. This could be a real mess that you don't need to be a part of. He has responsibilities to care for the child; you don't.
Tell himit will uncomfortable for you,tounderstand that but you will support him if he wants to take a place in this childs life.
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