Monday, July 26, 2010

Desperate advice about picking up?

I am a 22-year old male student living in Melbourne, and I have just been dumped after a long-term relationship. I don't have any experience whatsoever with trying to meet girls and whatnot, and I could REALLY use some advice. Thanks.Desperate advice about picking up?
Well, don't go trying to meet someone right away.





Take some time for yourself. Do things with your friends. Do things for yourself. Don't get hung up on not being in a relationship. I know its hard. I have been there, too, and it feels like the end of the world. But you need to find out who you are as an individual again. Long-term relationships have a way of making up forget that (which isn't always bad, but can be when they end).





You're 22. I don't know how ';long term'; this was, but you need to go out and be 22. Enjoy your youth.





As far as meeting girls, don't spend every waking moment looking for one. That's just not how it works. Usually the right one just kind of wanders into your life, sometimes before you even know it. Just remember to be yourself.





Bars and clubs can be good, but why not try some student organizations that you're interested in. That way you'll have a chance to meet women with the same interests as you and not in a loud, hot, drunk bar.





There's always the Internet but as I say about Internet dating: the odds are good, but the goods are odd.

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